Just don’t engage — The one thing that is certain is that nothing will EVER be resolved when arguing with a narcissist since that is not their goal. Narcissists will look at every social interaction as a competition they must win at all costs. It doesn’t even have to be exclusive to debates or…

The funny thing about grief is you never quite understand it until it catches up to you. Grief can be a feeling that trumps the occasional sadness, yet not quite like depression. It tends to hide in the background, waiting for the right opportunity to cloud the day and keep…

Be prepared in the event all hell breaks loose — I’m a believer that outright telling a narcissist that they’re a narcissist wouldn’t change a thing. The practice itself won’t result in a positive or constructive outcome, rather the moment a narcissist recognizes that someone is tuning in on their nature, they’ll feel threatened and resort to deceptive tactics to…

“Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children” — People who are raised in a home with narcissistic parent(s) are by virtue forced to deal with years of unresolved baggage. And certainly, for the more extreme, malignant types, this can be the unfortunate case for a handful of people — born into a world of their own parents’ making…

Without spending too much building up to it, the hallmark of narcissistic relationships is PATTERNS. While in a relationship with a narcissist, you are quite likely to run into a number of problems and endless arguments. Like any relationship, when it comes to conflict, the best solution is to solve…

When a narcissist loses control, it can sometimes result in severe harm. — Once the love-bombing and all the lovey-dovey feelings come to pass, supply will become a chore or otherwise boring to the narcissist. With the exit of abdominal butterflies, and if the narcissist has no other option, they will encourage toxicity to manifest in the relationship. With all intention to create…

They are fearful of it — The general censuses of narcissists is that they are the fearful type. Much of this angst comes from a strong desire to protect their image and selfish needs. However… To be involved in/with intimacy means to breaking down those barriers they’ve spent so long building, leaving them vulnerable for all…

They will be left overwhelmingly surprised — The things you do that scare them are the same things that leave them surprised as well. Here are some of the following: Showing kindness Displaying or giving any ounce of generosity will leave them utterly speechless. So much so that they will begin questioning if there are ulterior motives behind the…

Talking about the inabilities of narcissism — Because narcissists lack empathy, they fail to understand how something may have hurt you and will only grasp it if they are also hurt in the process. This is why they resort to grey rocking. They are masterful in the art of deception and will manipulate any situation that’ll prevent…