Why A Narcissist Without Control In A Relationship Is Terrifying
When a narcissist loses control, it can sometimes result in severe harm.
Once the love-bombing and all the lovey-dovey feelings come to pass, supply will become a chore or otherwise boring to the narcissist.
With the exit of abdominal butterflies, and if the narcissist has no other option, they will encourage toxicity to manifest in the relationship. With all intention to create a tug/pull dynamic so the narcissist can get more selfish enjoyment out of the relationship. And sometimes to remain powerful and in the driver’s seat.
Many see this as the narcissist pushing the limits to how far they can go. This is to see if the supply will respond by feeding them exactly what they want.
If you’re in this situation or some variation of it, do not fall for it.
For whatever reason, narcissists can be persistent for an ego boost from time to time. Soon enough, if such needs aren’t met, then a whole different side of them will be exposed — a shade of them that you may not be prepared to see.
Once their mask slips, their feelings begin to spur and rage. In the midst of fury, partners (or those involved) will have no clue what is going on. Consisting of nothing but childish…
