These 4 Things Will Catch A Narcissist Off Guard
The things you do that scare them are the same things that leave them surprised as well. Here are some of the following:
Showing kindness
Displaying or giving any ounce of generosity will leave them utterly speechless. So much so that they will begin questioning if there are ulterior motives behind the gesture — asking such things as “What may be that person want?”.
Generally, the narcissist will not give the same treatment unless there is something in it for them. Assuming this pattern of thought, they believe others carry the same sentiments. It is exactly the reason you may not find a narcissist being the benefactor in any situation, especially if there is nothing in return. For them, it isn’t worth it.
Narcissists who are met on the receiving end of good, without expectation, will be ultimately stunned.
It’s also important to note that both kindness and generosity, in some way, give them supply. So it’s best to avoid giving them any opportunity to be taken advantage of.
Not feeding into their bullshit
Since narcissists are accustomed to intimidating others, they’re not subscribed…
